Memorandum for Memorial

In Nipissing University's history, and certainly in the lifespan of Canadore College, we have often said goodbye to peers who have, unfortunately, left us too soon. Whether by illness, or strife, or the too-often cruel game of chance, we have been forced to say goodbye when we were least ready.

Our brothers and sisters have left to us their legacy. And though it is with great pride that we take this burden upon ourselves, it is important to remember that our work is never done alone, and never done in absence of those who first spurred us on.

Nipissing University is made up of students whose dedication and love has made possible great things. We have always been proud of the volunteerism shown by these men and women, and I think it is our turn to honour them.

I propose a day dedicated to remembering those among who never made it home, but who were loved and without whom we continue to seek a greater understanding. I propose we illuminate the halls with our candlelight vigil and bring this light to the pond so that our inexact grieving is made wholesome to nature. I propose we stand shoulder to shoulder and share stories and laugh about the sometimes farcical nature of life. I cannot promise to allievate pain, but I can hope our efforts will keep our memories vivid. What say you, friends? When shall we light our vigil?

Update: Just today, a discussion about creating a memorial wall, garden or vigil was prompted by Ingrid Bajewsky to best remember our peers who have left us. I am inclinded to believe that a tree -- standing strong against the pond, which shadows the geese and makes its mark into our horizon -- is a perfect symbol. Trees grow from fertile green shoots to echo a certain grace in their leaves, creating homes, food and of course, life.

For certain is death for the born
And certain is birth for the dead;
Therefore over the inevitable
Thou shouldst not grieve.

-- Gita